Against Free Union

When you love somebody you need to value different ways to maintain the relationship; perhaps you can consider the main ways of engagement: free union or marriage. If you select free union you can face different kinds of problems, for example in a legal - economical, social and religious aspect. This is because people are not generally too mature to think in the consequences of this act, and that can affect forever the different parts of the relationship.

First, when two people make a new life arise. Studies show many benefits of a child that grows within a family set, they can present from low levels of violence to better interpersonal performance. (Youngmin, 2003) Think about how it influenced the amount of time that our parents spent with us as children. In those moments, we still need help for different homeworks and we are very dependent; so when there elements such as long working hours, that space is limited. In a marriage, one of the two figures is likely to be present, preventing the child to feel some kind of sense of abandonment, which can affect their social relationships later. Not to mention the stability generated by living in a household with married parents. In some cases it may promote the stability of relationships in the future, in other cases avoidance of premarital sex, and even instilled with drugs, since there is no need to seek refuge in other things to feel value, the value is inculcated in the family, where both parents are present to promote the proper human development in their children.

Second, the social factors that may face people living with a partner are very different from married people, because to separate the pair and get bank loans have different procedures, according to the article, "The Uniform Dissolution of Marriage Act (UDMA) is a no-fault divorce statute That has Eliminated the old Grounds For Divorce and outlines all the Procedure for making custody, child support, maintenance or alimony and property division decisions. For the division of property, the trial court must-determine the value of all marital property and make an equitable or fair division of marital property "(Uniform Dissolution of Marriage). First, why married people have to meet various legal processes for the separation of material goods, it takes time to be fulfilled and this time couples may think if you really want to separate or not, otherwise people living in cohabitation does not have to go through these processes and make decisions quickly, and property are not always shared equally. Second, this gives an example of why banks do not provide all types of loans to people living with a partner, because they do not want to risk that is separate and not willing to assume the debt, this is mainly in loans housing.

In base of Christian views the marriage according to Genesis 2:18, God said, "It's not good for man to be alone I'll make someone like him for help" which I take from his rib and I am a woman and the man said - "This is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh. His name is woman, because she left the man. Therefore a man leaves his father and mother and cleaves to his wife and the two shall become one flesh. “Hence in the garden of Eden was marriage instituted by God as intimacy and companionship. Later Christianity makes a sacrament of the church as very important decision in life’s of person, where man and women should to reflect and engage with other so that together form a family with emotional stability, economic security, and even a log life. As divorce is frowned upon in the ideals of Christianity and to make a decision to form a life with another person should not be a hasty decision or based on sexual desires, but a decision filled with love, respect, tolerance and engagement to bring a relationship to the end of our time.

In conclusion, the marriage is the union between women and men through a ritual or legal formalities, according to the real meaning of Spanish Academy who enters into a compromise that provides security not only to society of this union, if not the same union. However UNEC studies show that for every 100 marriages each year there are 37 divorces, according to the Nation newspaper, which follows that we lack commitment and training for relationship. There is a question whether the divorce rate is increasing every year by opening a legal commitment and tedious paperwork for a separation so many separations and separate parent households increased more per year, if from the outset and we pledge doubt thinking that maybe not going to like and want everything to be easy.



Source:

1. Uniform Dissolution of Marriage Act - Lawyers.com Republic ...
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2. Divorces Rice and Fall Weddings, the Nation newspaper, Take www.nacion.com Febrary 18, 2007.

3. Genesis 2:18, the Bible.